To give up a dog, after having taken the decision
to keep one, is a failure. It is an unhappy experience for you, but an
even worse experience for your dog.
Your dog was taken away from his own kind (from
the puppies in the litter where he was born) and had to adapt himself at
a young age to substitute
people as his companions instead of (or as well
as) other dogs.
Your dog did not choose you. You chose him.
For whatever reason outside of his control, you
have now decided to part with him. Perhaps you have found it difficult
to understand your dog well enough to
make it possible to train him, either to be clean
in the house, or to be under your reasonable control so that he does not
cause other people to complain of
the nuisance he causes them.
If so, this is your fault, not his.
There are simple ways to train a dog, but it
takes time and trouble. It is certainly worth it because it is so rewarding
to be able to communicate with an animal.
Dogs are eager and anxious to please, if only
people will learn how to understand them. It is important to consult either
the breeder of the puppy or a dog training class as soon as any difficulty
arises so that steps to overcome the problem can be taken at an early age.
It is also useful to join a charity for dog owners, as well as
visit dog shows and read as much as possible
so as to increase your interest in, and knowledge of dogs. Of course, all
this may be too late for you by now -- but
is there time for you to reconsider?
Your dog may have developed problems which will
make it very difficult for him to be re-homed, unless with a family or
individual with exceptional patience and
understanding. There are not enough good homes
to go round. Surely it is up to you to find the extra patience needed now,
because already the dog has grown up with you and is familiar with your
home surroundings. Call outside help for training. Contact your vet or
animal welfare organisation for help, but please don't part with your dog
unless every effort has been made towards overcoming the problems.
THE MAJORITY OF DOGS DO NOT LIVE TO
SEE THEIR FIRST
BIRTHDAY.
They have to be destroyed when they
become too much of a problem to re-home.
Of course, there are sometimes outside
difficulties beyond our control, which make it suddenly impossible
to keep a dog any longer, but even then it may be
possible to arrange for a dog to
be re-homed without the need to use the overcrowded dog's homes.
YOUR DOG IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY FROM
THE MOMENT YOU
DECIDE TO OWN HIM,
FOR THE WHOLE OF HIS LIFE.